Emmanuel O. Afolabi (Lagos, Nigeria)
Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord. - Romans 12:19 (NIV)
Forgiveness is a fundamental aspect of the Christian faith, and it’s a gift that is essential for our emotional, spiritual, and relational well-being. When we forgive others, we’re not only freeing them from the debt they owe us, but we’re also freeing ourselves from the burden of resentment and anger.
I once struggled to forgive someone who had wronged me deeply. Through prayer and reflection on Romans 12:19, I realized that forgiveness is not just a feeling; it is a choice. When I chose to forgive, I experienced a weight lifted off my shoulders, and my heart began to heal. This experience taught me that forgiveness doesn’t erase the past but frees us to live more fully in the present.
In Matthew 6:14-15, Jesus teaches us that forgiveness is a condition for receiving forgiveness from God. He says, “For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.” When we choose to release others from the debt they owe us, to trust God to handle the situation, and to receive the gift of forgiveness, we experience God’s grace anew.
Forgiveness frees us from the burden of bitterness.
For courage to forgive myself and others
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